Civic lean

I judge a decision by who carries the cost, not only by the principle.

A rule that keeps landing on the same people has already failed for me.

I am wary of exceptions, even when I like the person asking.

A standard everyone can predict matters more to me than a kinder one-off.

My default is to leave people free unless there is a strong reason not to.

I would rather live with someone's bad choice than take the choice away.